My story
My experience in simple words: born as Sun in Zodiac Virgo, Moon in Cancer and ascendant in Libra, 1974, grown up in small picturesque village by the bay, father left at once, mother was energetic + loving and supportive, poor childhood, dreamed about becoming seaman, good pupil and then student of merchant Marine Academy, marine engineer working at sea, divorced with no children, new great marriage which later healed all me, 16 years being salesman, career, gifted with perfect son, mother dropped dead, business trips, motorbike, diving, learned how to be father, military reconstructions, mistakes that almost ruined most important relationships, taken responsibility so marriage survived, radical forgiveness, enlightening, contact with father after 40 years, thousands hours of meditation, past lives, hypnosis, contact with souls of death people, workshops, many spiritual mistakes and wrong paths, dived into astral world too much, new job position – advisor and coach, a lot of breath exercises, more and more wins in spirituality, loving myself, insights, psychedelics + their integration for others, hypnosis sessions for others, decision to achieve financial freedom, holotropic breathwork -> rebirth, appreciating what I have, happy money, marine technical expert, value of our assets increased, concentrating on what I love doing, setting up this website to let us connect. At last.
Radical forgiveness is method invented by Colin Tipping, coach who managed to merge psychology, habits of native Americans and his own spiritual insights into comprehensive system of activities helping to forgive regardless if the person believes in it or not. This method was main which has saved and transformed my family. We have it imprinted in our DNA now. I still use tools available from Colin’s Institute. Thanks go to Krystyna Liberadzka, therapyst from Kołobrzeg / Poland for sharing these methods. Some of tools I use are based or evolved from what I learned from her.
First, we (my family) have healed ourselves emotionally, then we have healed our bodies to let us live freely and then we started building consciously our material abundance.
Happy Money – this philosophy is in line with what I feel made me rich. I have joined the Arigato Living Community and literally right after I started seeing rapid changes in my financial life. Initially they have influenced things related to heritance and increased income of my relatives. My job position got stable in new structure of the company I have been working for years. Some unexpected donations appeared which was actually lesson for my male ego to learn I do not have to earn everything myself. These new streams of income are ways the Universe responded to my efforts to learn harmony in money giving and receiving.
Browse the site of Ken Honda, popularizer of Happy Money idea, by clicking the picture on the right.
While exploring new connections within Happy Money environment I have obtained great facilitation of Passion Test from Yoshimi Muto and David Johnston. They helped me to recall that I new my true passion already but I put it back into waiting room as I didn’t believe that it may evolve into something bigger. Maybe that was wrong or maybe there were more important things to be solved. I do not judge myself. Anyway after performing this test I knew what I wanted to do.
In my parallel adventures of forgiveness and happy money search I have reached the point where some money wound did not let me to avoid investment mistakes. So I needed to find what it was. Being surrounded by friends inspired by Ken I have received EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) session from Niko Ana Jeanne with intention to achieve financial freedom. Within short minutes it led me to my early childhood and released a lot of tears which have never showed up before. That trauma was distributed evenly into each of my day so I have never cried directly because of it. So the EFT environment became my final touch in forgiveness process. I have forgiven and stayed away from who I have forgiven. Due to very specific personality of this individual it was not possible to rebuild relation based on truth. So forgive, love, but keep distance – very interesting experience.
Regardless of the role you play in human civilization, remember that it’s just that—a role. Professional actors in movies or theaters seamlessly return to their natural selves once a role concludes. Reincarnating into roles is a more advanced skill than merely being a professional actor, as each of our roles is meticulously prepared beforehand.
Firstly, it begins with choosing the right parents—relatives from our past to whom we owe a debt or who owe something to us. Secondly, it involves being born into a specific family with its own generational traumas, aligned thematically with the lessons we-souls intend to confront in this current incarnation.
But that’s not all. The third factor involves choosing the precise timing and place of birth to acquire certain personality traits that astrology and numerology often speak about. These sciences also contain information about our past lives. The fourth factor is once again related to the place of birth, intricately connected to the choice of parents. These parents, already related to us, selected the place with its cultural features—religion, social customs, race, nationality, and collective karma shaping our sense of self-worth, opportunities for advancement, freedom, or its absence. All these factors create the perfect conditions we face in the initial years of our incarnation, shaping the complexity of the tasks we’ll encounter in this life.
Is that all? Far from it. As we absorb paradigms during childhood, we progress toward adulthood, where other paradigm-laden individuals await us—partners, spouses, and children karmically linked to us.
Due to karmic amnesia, we must resolve all issues from scratch, which might seem unfair. However, the longer we play this ‘Matrix’—often viewed as a kind of prison—the more mature our appreciation becomes. Initially victims, over time, we become experienced detectives who forgive, acknowledge traits within ourselves we aren’t proud of, and gradually change. We begin to comprehend that past experiences define behavior in all actors, prompting us to cease blaming others and focus on self-improvement. Eventually, we find beauty in everything, even what’s commonly seen as human tragedy. Every day, we realize more deeply that it’s nothing but a game, or rather, a stage of a game that will eventually conclude.
Not everyone considers their stage passed; many face failure and restart the stage anew. However, is ‘failure’ the right word? After all, eternity doesn’t cease. One can attempt infinitely. Fortunately, there are numerous human bodies available on Earth now, making breaks between incarnation roles much shorter than the roles themselves.
Yet, I’d like to influence your ambition here. You have the right to retry this ‘class,’ much like children in school when they struggle to learn. The question is, do you genuinely want to? Does it align with you-ambitious-soul, expectations?
Even if you’re fond of this planet and wish for more incarnations here, it’s worth working on your development, nonetheless. You can achieve this by forgiving others and releasing the victim mentality. It liberates. Oh, believe me.
